In 2003, The Oak Ridge Boys
recorded a very special album project for the
Spring Hill Music Group. Colors has
become one of our most popular projects in the
last decade. We recorded the CD to honor
America and to pay tribute to those who have
defended (and now defend) the freedoms of our
great country. I believe we accomplished that
goal with songs like An American Family,
Colors, American Beauty, The
Home Stretch, and This Is America.
However, I have been asked to
write a few words concerning another song on
the CD. G.I. Joe and Lillie has become
a recent YouTube phenomenon. I am so deeply
moved and humbled by it, it is hard to find
the words. I’ll start with the history of this
song, which is chronicled in the Foreword to
my book of the same name, G.I. Joe and
Lillie: Remembering a Life of Love and Loyalty,
published by New Leaf Press in 2003.
Although I wrote the book
after my parents passed away, I wrote the song
while they were still alive. The Oak Ridge
Boys were performing in Lancaster, PA, at the
American Music Theater, and we had invited
forty veterans from the Southeastern
Pennsylvania Veterans Home to join us that
evening. My parents, Joseph S. Bonsall, Sr.
and Lillie M. Bonsall, were in attendance that
night. They also resided in what my mom
called, ‘The Soldiers Home.’ I wrote the song
to honor them and after we performed it that
night there was not a dry eye in the place.
G. I. Joe and Lillie
left us in 2001. My dad passed away in
January, and my mom in October. Over the next
few years some amazing things happened. I
wrote the book, based on Lillie’s memoirs. It
tells the story of a young couple who met
after joining the army in the 40’s. Each had
grown up in abusive homes. They were a war
hero and a WAC, who would marry and live with
the demons of war for the rest of their lives.
Yet… they would survive and raise a family.
Like the song says, it is a story of faith and
patriotism and plain old American grit—desire
and hard work. It is my parents’ story. But it
is similar to so many others’.
The book has been a huge
success on every level, as has the song. As a
son, I am blessed that I have been able to
honor my parents in word and song. I thank God
for this every single day. The response has
been overwhelming from the beginning,
especially from veterans of World War Two, who
have identified so much with the story. Like
the line in the song says, “an American love
story not unlike a lot of others,” I believe a
big reason for the success of the book and
song is the fact that so many veterans lived
their lives—during that time period and in the
years after the war—exactly as Joe and Lillie
did.
A few years ago, The Oak
Ridge Boys taped a patriotic-themed television
special for our friends at Feed The Children.
We performed G. I. Joe and Lillie live
for the first time since that night in
Lancaster when I debuted it for my parents. It
was a special evening for me, performing with
The Oak Ridge Boys on a big stage, with the
band, and all the production. As the cameras
rolled, I became incredibly emotional as I
sang about my daddy and mommy. I found myself
wishing they could be there, and when I got to
the last line, ‘G. I. Joe and Lillie was MY
father and my mother,’ well… I just lost
it.